Introduction
Who is this
MicroModule most useful for?
This coaching the
entrepreneur module is for anyone who wants to understand
and/or work successfully with the entrepreneur. It is
helpful for entrepreneurs themselves, their family,
friends or colleagues and the coaches or consultants
working with entrepreneurs.
How to do I
transition an entrepreneur to a client?
That’s easy.
Ask an entrepreneur
to
talk about their project and
ideas and enjoy the conversation.
Then ask the entrepreneur if they'd like to schedule an
interview to discuss some of their projects or great
ideas. Possible questions include:
"What are you working on in your professional life?
Anything special?"
"Wow,
you are full of great ideas, have you ever worked with
someone to bring them to completion?"
”Given the
opportunity of what you're working on, how can I further
support you, Tom?”
"Would you like
someone to bounce some of those great ideas off of and
maybe encourage you to go even farther with them?"
"Have you ever considered the possibility that you
are an entrepreneur and that you are best served by
working with someone who really gets where you're coming
from?"
Notice this
feedback is a "soft sell". You are not trying to get
anything from them. You simply further the conversation to
whatever depth the prospect wants to go. Entrepreneur's do
not want to feel manipulated. Remember the entrepreneur is
often extremely bright and they will know if you are
trying to 'lead them somewhere'. It's deadly to go into a
conversation with them with the intent of getting them
to talk or to be a client. Just enjoy them.
What you
should know about coaching the entrepreneur...
Most entrepreneurs say coaches hold
them back too much.
Don't let your risk aversion get in
the way of the entrepreneurs ability to innovate. If you
can't be with the ups and downs that come with an
entrepreneur, you probably shouldn't be coaching them.
Encourage the entrepreneur to think
even bigger.
As counter intuitive as it may sound,
get the entrepreneur thinking even bigger. Everyone else
in their life will want them to think smaller. It's your
job as a coach to expand their vision, not restrict it.
Just listen.
It's enough. Really. Most
coaches feel the need to prove their worth or earn their
fee which actually gets in the way of the true value the
coach can provide. They are
really paying you just to listen. Their spouses and
friends can't provide this like a coach can.
Charge enough for them to take you
seriously.
As strange as it
may sound, not
charging enough will hurt your chances with an
entrepreneur, not help. They have very big goals and want
someone who is willing to take them and their goals
seriously.
Don't provide advice.
If you give them tips on ways to
improve their business, they will likely let you go.
Don't argue or fight with an
entrepreneur.
They have very specific ideas and
goals, getting in to an argument with them is lose-lose.
Just don't engage.
They'll tell you they want to
change. But they don't.
As
much as they think they want to change, deep down they
really don't. And in fact, shouldn't.
Their lifestyle
may cost them
personally and financially, but they have an important
role in society. Let
them play it.
Don't believe everything an
entrepreneur says to be true.
Most entrepreneurs exaggerate. Which
means problems are worse than they say and the good news
isn't quite as good.
Tips
on how to coach an entrepreneur
Coaching an entrepreneur isn't difficult and in fact can
be quite rewarding, but it is imperative that you find out
what they want you to do and the role they want you to
have and have them train you in that role, rather than you
trying to steer them in a particular way.
You do
that by simply asking them how you can best support them.
They will tell you.
Help the person see that they are an
entrepreneur and that they'll tend to have ideas for the
rest of their life. So, help them see they are different
than the average bear. That uniqueness is a gift but they
often experience it as a burden because "things don't
usually work out financially for them."
Find out how willing the person is to become financially
successful vs just being a happy creative type. Ask if
they are willing to give up some of their creative juices
to set up systems for production and learning. Ask them
if they are willing to be 'bored.' That usually wakes
them up and gets them thinking.
It's easy and natural to come in and want to
fix the chaos an entrepreneur brings. Resist this. Instead
find the gift your client is offering the world and enjoy
every part of them. From the projects that don't get
finished to the endless projects and ideas they bring you.
Rejoice in this!
Help
the entrepreneur pick 3 failsafe support structures to
help them build the muscle to get from idea to revenue
stream.
Structure #1. You, as their coach, are one structure.
Structure #2. Have them set up an R&D Team of colleagues
or potential customers. This is really important because
it rounds the person out from being an 'it' thinker to a
'who' thinker, meaning that as the person starts feeling
and understanding the people who will be using their
idea/product/service, they start to have a deeper
relationship with their idea vs the typical 'high' that
entrepreneurs get from having their ideas. Key, key
difference in terms of how the entrepreneur experiences
life. This alone can mature them quickly.
Structure #3. Set up some deadline/outcome dates for
testing or release of their product/service. There's
gotta be an endpoint with some pressure attached to it or
else the entrepreneur will cook up another idea and never
finish this one which actually brings them DOWN given they
know they 'failed.'
Along with #3, I've found that daily contact with a
colleague or coach or customers is essential; once a week
isn't enough. Personally, I am so undisciplined and so
lacking in willpower that I use Instant Messaging with my
colleagues or staff when I find myself drifting away. That
just in time structure keeps me productive.
...And
Because the entrepreneur is
wired the way they are, it can sometimes be painful to
watch or you may feel they may be taking on too much risk.
It helps to keep an eye on three things. To make sure they
have enough structure and support to deliver on the ideas
they have, schedule an integrity session once a month to
look at/work on the following:
1. The amount of room/space they have in their life to
create/play.
2. The structure/support systems they need to deliver on
their ideas/revenue streams.
3. The underpinnings they need for their
personal/lifestyle integrity/foundation.
Mistakes
Include:
Here are
examples of mistakes coaches make when coaching an
entrepreneur:
trying to protect them from
themselves.
trying to slow them down.
trying to direct them.
trying to make them
practical/linear.
trying to change them.
trying to get them to be
balanced (go for equilibrium instead).
What
entrepreneurs tend to respond to..
1.
Entrepreneur
clients NEED encouragement. Just because they own their
own business and are successful doesn't mean that they
don't need support from you. Entrepreneurs often have more
doubts about themselves than others do. Encouragement is
really, really important.
2. Entrepreneurs NEED
you to listen to them. A lot. Why? Because entrepreneurs
use the coaching relationship as a way to test out new
ideas or work through problems/issues.
3.
Entrepreneurs NEED outlets to express their creativity.
They are built to be innovators and experimenters. If
there isn't a way to express that creativity in an
expanding way frustration is usually not far behind.
4.
Entrepreneurs can benefit greatly from the collaboration
that comes from having a personal R&D Team. They need like
minded people. An R&D Team provides that.
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